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Watching The Parade (…While Waiting For Your Promises)

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What do you do when others receive what you have been desperately waiting for?

It’s a question I receive quite often and have contemplated myself from time to time. It’s similar to watching a parade.

The massive floats and colorful banners are on display.

The procession of bands play with precision and on beat.

The grand marshals and celebrants wave boldly to those watching.

And you are watching all of this activity on the sidelines.

The same scenario can be likened to waiting for what God has promised you. This process would be manageable if you only were experiencing the stretching of preparation. But, quite often, the process of waiting extends much farther and wider than we tend to admit. Many times, God will allow you to be exposed to the success, achievements and accomplishments of others — just to see how you will respond. It’s like watching the parade go by.

I’ve never seen a parade that doesn’t draw attention and crowds. Other streets are blocked off in order for the parade to go on uninterrupted. You’ll hear the crowds cheer the participants of the parade with great enthusiasm. When others are blessed with opportunities and God’s promises for them coming to pass, it should be celebrated! God answered prayers! God honored the wait! In the midst of the celebration, has the question ever rose up in your heart: “God…how long must I wait?” or “When is it my turn?” or “I know I shouldn’t feel this way, but have you ignored me?”

If the truth be told, these questions wrestle with our faith from time to time. Doubt creeps in like a thief ready to rob the treasure of faith. Worry mounts like a brick wall tumbling down. Jealousy seeps in like a suffocating odor. If not checked or addressed, the sin of unbelief will cripple you at every turn. I know the parades of success go by, even those blessings that you’ve been praying for. I know how difficult it can be when others (unintentionally or in some cases intentionally) talk about their blessings at every turn. How do you handle it when you are battling coming to terms with your own waiting process?

Here’s some tips that have helped me along the way:

(1) Celebrate Others More Than You Celebrate Yourself

In our narcissistic-driven culture, we are told to celebrate ourselves as if we are gods ourselves! It’s all about us, all the time. But, if we are to overcome the envy, jealousy or depressive state that comes with others receiving what you’ve been waiting for — celebrate others more than you celebrate yourself! This takes time but it also takes intentionality. I’m not suggesting putting on an act as if you are happy for someone. God does not honor inauthentic presentations. God gets glory when we celebrate what He is doing in the lives of others. Rather than focusing on what someone received (in the right, honorable manner), celebrate the Source!

(2) Meditate On His Word and His Sure Promises

The reason why the “parade of manifested promises” bother many is because they spend too much time harping on it. When you focus on what God is doing through and in you, there’s not much time to languish over what you could have done in comparison with others. The way to focus is to meditate on God’s Word and His promises in His Word. Joshua 1:8 declares Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful.” The Word speaks for itself.

(3) Compliment! (Don’t Compete)

I’ve personally witnessed others being blessed and promises coming to pass — for the benefit of others! It wasn’t only for them but for those connected to them. This is why we celebrate as well! Why compete when you can compliment? Why give “shade” when you can shed light on what God is doing in the lives of many?

Despising your waiting is despising God’s preparation in your life. While you watch the parade of promises coming to pass in the lives of others, learn and grow from it! Discover ways to glean from their experiences and humbly ask how they persevered through trials. God allows the parades to go by externally to expose you to what He’s working internally. – RF

The Collyde Summit Countdown: In 1 Week!

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Watch Collyde Summit Promo 2014 Here!

The Collyde Summit will kick off in 1 week and you don’t want to miss it! Hosted at Christ Church (140 Green Pond Road, Rockaway, New Jersey), this two-day summit will include speakers such as Catalyst’s Brad Lomenick, Eugene Cho, Dr. David Ireland, Tim Lucas, Naomi Zacharias and more! National recording artist Jeremy Camp will also join the summit, leading us in worship! The theme for this summit is OVERCOME! Founder and CEO of Collyde, Jinu Thomas and the Collyde Team have put months of work into this regional gathering! Join us and register at http://www.collydesummit.com! We look forward to connecting with you!

Campus Ministry Collective (A Seedbed Publishing Initiative)

I’m excited to be a part of a team of college ministers, pastors and leaders who will lend their voices to strengthen college ministries across the country. The Campus Ministry Collective is a new initiative through Seedbed Publishing, powered by Asbury Theological Seminary in Wilmore, Kentucky. The collective provides readers and leaders the opportunity to learn from practitioners of college-based ministries how to develop and strengthen their own ministries in their context.

I’ve been personally impacted by the words and wisdom of this new blog and look forward to contributing to its growth! Thanks to Dr. Guy Chmieleski (Author, Campus Gods) and the Seedbed Publishing Team for their hard work and efforts to bring this blog to many!

Check it out here: Campus Ministry Collective (A Seedbed Publishing Initiative)

Check out the article: The Truth About College Ministry “Busyness”